Today i will be talking about Zoning. I understand friendzone to be a situation whereby an opposite sex you are interested in only sees you as a friend, nothing more, nothing less. it is something that has become very rampant in our society today.
i have engaged myself in conversations with both girls and guys just to find out how someone really gets zoned. According to the guys, a nice looking lady will surface and then they get to know her and eventually become very close, the guy really loves the girl but does not know how to say it because when the girl wants to chat him up, he will hear... HEY BRO, PADI MI, OREMI, in cases of giving instagram shoutouts you will see SHOUTOUT TO MY MAIN, HES LIKE THE BROTHER I NEVER HAD... I mean who does that, i found the whole thing very irritating until i talked to a number of girls and their only response was that the guy never makes it clear that he wants something more than friendship, and then they are quick to conclude that he is just a friend. There are sharp guys sha that make their intentions known, who at the end gets to hear stories about them... ofcourse the zoned guys. Personally i think the zoning of a thing is just a whole bunch of misunderstanding. When a guy likes a girl and he takes his time before telling her, the girl tends to think that he just wants friendship... thats a whole lot of thinking right there. Lets not get anything twisted here, there are actually some guys who want to be zone, i mean why would you follow your female friend to go see her boyfriend... its crazy. If guys can make their intentions very clear, they stand a chance of getting a YES or NO answer, then it is now the guys choice to either remain there as a friend or go away, nobody gets hurt.
In some cases, the lady actually zones the guy intentionally which is another topic for another day. Yeah yeah i know some guys also zone girls but i think it is very very rear... if you think otherwise the comment box is open, lets hear your opinion.
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